Marriage - From A Frustrated Indian Girl's Perspective!

I have arrived at such phase of life where everyone around me are making/getting their partners for life..

It's like making partnership deal with someone at this stage of life.

The stage where friend circle is reduced and only true friends and the friends in need to survive stays..

The time when we tend to look more in inner self than outer world...when there is so much chaos outside here we are seeking for solitude and peace..

And at the same time wondering why we need partner for life when the only person who can understand me is ME..

The only person who can keep me happy is ME..

The only person who makes me strong is ME..

And the list will go on....

By selecting life partner.. we here make a deal to understand each other.. to keep each other happy.. etc ..which in turn is a "Deal of Expectations" why????

I mean why society likes complexity... why to expect other person to understand you or keep you happy..

I can understand the situation where there is a natural bond between 2 people and they want to be the part of this deal.. but in that case too why there is age limit to sign this deal...and the entirely different situation.. what point it has in arranged deals.. there exists no bond and applies age constraint!!!

Why is it not ok if person doesn't have partner or do not want a partner...what if person is self sufficient to take care of self and keep a self happy.. because person understands self very well.. and no one can love the person more than the person itself!!!

And anyway in India.. majority of people are part of lifepartner deal is for sex, babies, family, support etc...well this things can be achieved without signing the deal too!!

Then why there is such pressure by society at this stage to get into this unwanted deal..again.. for happiness? To have someone's support by your side..?..but happiness is not needed from anyone and the support is not needed at this stage of life...

Life is mine.. happiness is mine..Bond with the person will be created naturally.. or may be there will be no bond.. but incase there is a bond ..the time and decision to sign lifepartner deal will be by us...till then "everything that belongs to me is mine!"  ;)

Is Internet loading our brain with unwanted data?

It's 21st century.. Century of Internet.. Century of globalisation.. 

Internet has made lot of information easily available to us. It has made individual to be aware of whats happening around him.. 

What was the history and what future holds for humanity.. 

It's upto us in what we are interested and how we are making use of this technology.. 

However I see people around me.. Specifically youth interested in junk information.. 

This junk information can be identified as information which is not an add on to our knowledge nor our time.. 

Let's skip entertainment section available on internet.. but apart from this.. what's happening with celebrity.. Which celebrity wore which dress.. Who is getting divorced.. Who got married.. Who travelled and who enjoyed the movie and which couple displayed best chemistry in shoot and who commented what and who got offended.. 

What a fake world and what a naive people using it. 

Somewhere or the other people are getting addicted to this junk information and this is affecting youth's personality.. And hence does depression is on it's rising edge. 

It's upto one's senses and parents guidance to make their kid aware of what's necessary and what's to be ignored in this world of internet. 

Not to get influenced over fake world and stay unaffected and be with inner you. 

Yes ignorance towards junk information and negative data.. is the best policy in order to stay unaffected and succeed in todays world. 

Internet is a good technology.. Itz time to make optimized use of it.. And not allow our brain to overload it with unwanted data.